The most important things I learned about conducting business and social life abroad are that you don’t have to have everything figured out but you have to be willing to adapt, and that although your home culture can be comfortable you have to be willing to step out of your comfort zone. First, I was afraid of going to a new country where the language, customs and culture would be overwhelming. Although from the outside interactions seemed daunting, by just listening and allowing someone to show you or try and explain it, little interactions became much easier. English is a worldwide language, meaning there’s a good chance if you struggle speaking another language you can find someone who understands just enough to help you out. Being adaptable is key, whether it’s paying to use the restroom, ordering at a restaurant or signing up for a tour, these interactions will never go as planned. It takes being able to adapt and see what’s going on to make smart and correct decisions. Second, thinking that your culture is normal is a mindset that can get you into trouble. Many times I found myself wanting to have a quick and efficient lunch or dinner. This is not how the culture worked in France, each meal was a time to spend three or four hours hanging and talking. Not only are small interactions like that different but also big things like travel. Trains, for instance, rely a lot more on your ability to read and quickly decipher the information in contrast to the very straightforward American way. If I was afraid to get on the train due to fear of this unknown I wouldn’t have had the experiences I did. Overall I am thankful for my experience abroad and the lessons I learned throughout the trip. If you plan on going abroad, my advice would be to focus on being aware and intentional, be ready to adapt and be open to new experiences.
