Writing this a week and a half into my travels, I can say that the most rewarding experience thus far was both unplanned and unexpected. After a tiring week of class and adjusting to the new country, my friends decided we needed to unwind with the French nightlife. We were in line for the restroom when we met Louise, a French woman who spoke better English than we did. What we expected to end at a two minute conversation begun our evening of long conversations comparing American to French stereotypes and endless laughter. I didn’t know what exactly I envisioned for my study abroad until that night. Even throughout my previous international travels with my family, that was the first time I truly didn’t feel like a tourist.
In terms of business, I’ve come across three key observations. Firstly, there is a clear focus on formality and professionalism—titles and greetings hold significance, and there is an expectation of respect and decorum even in informal business environments. Secondly, the French place a high value on work-life balance, which contrasts sharply with the U.S.; lengthy lunches, regular breaks, and strict boundaries regarding after-hours work are the norm. Lastly, there is a profound sense of national pride in local products and businesses. From the wine regions to fashion, there is a strong appreciation for heritage, craftsmanship, and quality, which appears to shape both consumer behavior and marketing approaches.
Personally, the biggest surprise has been the distinct social norms. Although I’m aware that each country houses a unique culture, I truly assumed that American customs of smiling at a stranger or giving a pedestrian the right of way (to name a few) were universally accepted and appreciated. While I’ll still return to America with my manners, I am now more aware that there is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ custom, but rather customs that are right for the country.
